Maudu’in namu ayau shine adduar Neman soyyaye inma na Yan uwantaka ne, ko na zamantakewa, Shidai Soyayya tana da matuƙar muhimmanci a rayuwar ɗan adam, musamman tsakanin ma’aurata, abokai, da dangi. Duk da yake soyayya ta gaskiya tana samuwa ne daga Allah, akwai addu’o’i da dabaru da Musulunci ya koyar don neman soyayya mai albarka da dorewa. Rubutun nan zai tattauna addu’o’i na musamman don neman soyayya da ƙara dankon kauna tsakanin mutane.
Menene Soyayya Ta Gaskiya?
Soyayya ta gaskiya tana nufin jin ƙauna da tausayi na gaskiya wanda ba ya ɓata zuciya. Tana bayyana ta hanyoyin:
- Soyayya da ke cike da nufin Allah.
- Soyayya mai gina alaka mai kyau da albarka.
- Girmama juna da kulawa.
- Zama amintattu ga junanmu.
Addu’o’in Neman Soyayya
Addu’a ta Farko:
“Allahumma inni as’aluka hubbaka, wa hubba man yuhibbuka, wa hubba kulli ‘amalin yuqarribuni ila hubbik.”
Ma’ana: “Ya Allah, ina roƙonKa soyayyarka, da soyayyar wanda ke sonKa, da soyayyar duk wani aiki da zai kusantar da ni zuwa ga soyayyarka.”
Wannan addu’a tana taimakawa wajen samun soyayya ta Allah da mutane.
Addu’a ta Biyu:
“Wa alqaytu ‘alayka mahabbatan minni wa lituṣna’a ala ‘ainiy.” (Suratul Ta-Ha: 39)
Ma’ana: “Na jefa maka soyayya daga gare ni, domin a kula da kai a kan idona.”
Wannan addu’a tana ƙarfafa kauna tsakanin mutane.
Hanyoyin Neman Soyayya Ta Gaskiya
- Taimakon Allah: Ka dage da addu’a don Allah Ya shiryar da zuciyarka da ta wanda kake so.
- Amfani da Kyawawan Kalamai: Yin magana mai kyau yana ƙara soyayya a tsakanin mutane.
- Zama Mai Tausayi: Tausayi yana haifar da kauna da aminci.
- Ambaton Allah: Zikiri da tsayawa kan umarnin Allah suna haifar da albarka a soyayya.
- Zama Mai Hakuri: Soyayya ta gaskiya tana buƙatar hakuri da fahimtar juna.
Amfanin Soyayya Mai Albarka
- Tana kawo kwanciyar hankali da natsuwa.
- Tana ƙarfafa dangantaka ta gaskiya.
- Tana haifar da zaman lafiya da hadin kai.
- Tana gina rayuwar aure mai albarka.
Kammalawa
Soyayya ta gaskiya tana samuwa ne daga Allah, kuma neman ta ta hanyar addu’a yana tabbatar da albarka da dorewar ta. Ka dage wajen addu’o’i da kyautata halayenka domin samun soyayya ta gaskiya daga Allah da kuma daga mutane. Allah Ya sanya mu cikin masu ƙaunar juna da soyayya mai albarka. Ameen summa Ameen