Jawo hankalin saurayi da nufin soyayya mai tsabta da aure hanya ce wanda Musulunci ya yarda da ita, muddin ana yin ta cikin halal da kyawawan dabi’u. Addu’a ita ce babban makami da mutum zai yi amfani da shi wajen neman taimako gurin Allah don jawo hankalin wanda ake so. Maudu’in mu na yau y kinship addu’o’i da dabaru na Musulunci domin cimma wannan manufan.
Addu’o’i Don Jawo Hankalin Saurayi
Addu’a ta Farko:
“Rabbi hab li min ladunka zaujatan tayyibatan tuhibbuha wa tuhibbuni.”
Ma’ana: “Ya Ubangiji, Ka ba ni daga gareKa mijin da ya kasance mai kyau, wanda zan so, kuma zai so ni.”
Wannan addu’a tana taimakawa wajen samun saurayin da ya dace kuma wanda soyayyarsa za ta zama albarka.
Addu’a ta biyu:
“Allahumma inni as’aluka hubbaka, wa hubba man yuhibbuka, wa hubba kulli ‘amalin yuqarribuni ila hubbik.”
Ma’ana: “Ya Allah, ina roƙonKa soyayyarka, da soyayyar wanda ke sonKa, da soyayyar duk wani aiki da zai kusantar da ni zuwa ga soyayyarka.”
Wannan addu’a tana tabbatar da cewa soyayyar da ake nema za ta kasance cikin tsari da nufin Allah.
Addu’a ta Uku:
“Wa alqaytu ‘alayka mahabbatan minni wa lituṣna’a ala ‘ainiy.” (Surah Ta-Ha: 39)
Ma’ana: “Na jefa maka soyayya daga gare ni, domin a kula da kai a kan idona.”
Wannan addu’a tana da tasiri wajen sanya soyayya da ƙauna a zuciyar saurayin da ake so.
Hanyoyin Halal Don Jawo Hankalin Saurayi
- Niyya Mai Kyau: Ka tabbata cewa burin soyayyar ka/ki yana da tsabta da kyakkyawan nufi na aure.
- Kyautata Halayya: Soyayya tana samun karɓuwa idan ana da gaskiya da kyawawan dabi’u.
- Ambaton Allah: Zikiri da tsayawa kan dokokin Allah yana jawo albarka a soyayya.
- Zama Mai Tausayi: Kulawa da saurayin cikin tausayi da girmamawa yana ƙara dangantaka.
- Zama Mai ihsani: kyautatawa a Soyayya yana Kara so tsakanin mutane
- Addu’a da Hakuri: Ka dage da addu’a da kuma samun hakuri yayin jiran sakamakon Allah.
Amfanin Yin Addu’a Don Soyayya
- Tana kawo soyayya mai albarka da nufin Allah.
- Tana tabbatar da cewa dangantakar za ta dore cikin kwanciyar hankali.
- Tana taimakawa wajen samun saurayi mai kyau da aminci.
Kammalawa
Jawo hankalin saurayi a cikin halal abu ne mai kyau idan ana yin sa da kyakkyawar niyya da addu’a ga Allah. Duk abin da mutum yake nema, ya kamata ya yi nufin neman yardar Allah a cikinsa. Allah Ya shiryar da zukatanmu Ya kuma ba mu dangantaka mai albarka da dorewa. Ameen summa Ameen.